丟不掉一件喜歡卻塞不下的牛仔褲
如同
捨不掉一段相愛卻互相折磨的感情
在我的衣櫥裡有一件很漂亮的牛仔褲
是我爆瘦的時候買的
說它漂亮, 並不是牛仔褲本身漂亮
而是穿上它之後會讓我變漂亮
我會驕傲於當我穿著它時別人對我的讚美
也因為如此
我總認為不能隨隨便便穿著出門
必須是重要的約會或飯局才配得上它
於是
這條美麗的牛仔褲被我小心翼翼的掛在衣櫥裡
一掛就掛了好多年
你問我這麼多年真的都沒穿了嗎?
我會回答你"有"
不止一次我想穿著它參加重要聚會或飯局
但在我將它放在衣櫥裡的這段日子裡
我變胖了
再也穿不下這條漂亮的牛仔褲
我試著要將多出來的這些肉塞進去
即使塞進去了也拉不上拉鍊
而且沒有彈性的牛仔褲緊縛著下半身
讓我無法坐無法走
行動像是小木偶
當然也不可能漂亮得起來
一切是我放縱自己造成的
所以我也沒因此就將它丟了或賣了
我一直留著
希望有一天能再穿上它
就算這段時間穿不上
我也捨不得丟了它
因為它曾經讓我美麗......
So the conclusion of your log is doesn’t matter the jean or a relationship, the person has to be responsible for his/her action. If you had watched what you ate and drank, you’ll still be able to wear that lovely jean. In relationship is also the same. Involved parties have to work the relationship and accept what they don’t like about each other and think more of the things that they like about each other. There is no relationship is going to come to you on a silver plate. People just have to work on it. Do give it a try! ^_^
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